reflections, travel

You, elsewhere

As an adult, I am very into being rooted. I love my city. My neighborhood. My coffee shop. My people.

However, looking back I notice that my greatest leaps of personal development in life have always taken place far away from the “community” I hold so dear. It has only been in leaving home that I have learned (and re-learned) my most essential life lesson, which is that I am actually the architect of my community.  I source, connect and build the creative-generous-feminist-coffee-slinging-kale-eating-dance-party-having-drake-obsessed community of my dreams wherever I go. It’s in me.

That is a hard lesson for people – for me – to remember because unless you’re evolved as fuck, you get attached to things. And people. You get reliant. You forget that you were the one who found those people, those places, all that stuff in the first place.

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Back in February I was going through some tough times, lacking inspiration and suffering through the thick of winter in Canada. So I planned a trip West Texas and started counting down the days.

IMG_1475.JPGI have no illusions about what travelling can offer me. I know it’s not a solution to my problems. I know my fears, anxieties and insecurities will always be my oversized carry-ons.

IMG_1496.JPGBut travel is about so much more than escapism. It’s about challenging yourself to be uncomfortable for a little while. To live without your stuff, your people, your places. To see the same world, through the same eyes, but a new perspective.

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On this particular trip I learned that even though I didn’t know it, I was desperately in need of a hammock, a dear friend, 16 hours in a hot car, a plate of barbeque, a Steve Earle concert and bright orange trailer lovingly referred to as “Sparton Manor.”

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3 Comments

  • Reply Cait June 25, 2015 at 11:24 pm

    I love all of this. You really should know that you are the architect of your community, and all the people that you connect to each other by taking on that role are SO GRATEFUL

  • Reply Cait June 25, 2015 at 11:26 pm

    Also, yes, I do feel like I can speak for all of us 😉

    But seriously, you inspire me and are my ultimate badass feminist role model. Love you!

    • Reply the healthy hipster June 27, 2015 at 12:34 pm

      back at you, girl

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